![]() They create drama in the hope that you’ll take the hint that they’re not interested and end it, so that they can be let off the hook.ġ0. They may not even bother to make last-minute plans – they might just show up late at night expecting you to be around. They leave it to the last minute/short notice to make plans. If you think back to all the times when you’ve heard from them, you might notice that it was a preamble to something. ![]() It might be money, attention, an ego stroke, sex, being an armchair psychologist–something. They tend to be around/call you up when they want something. It goes in fits and starts, stalls, or goes into reverse.ħ. They’d like you to ‘go with the flow’ even if there is nothing flowing, and to expect nothing beyond this.ĥ. They don’t want to put both of their feet in and commit. They may not even bother speaking with you and rely predominantly on emails, text messages, and instant messenger.Ĥ. They’re not contacting you or are sporadically contacting you.Ģ. Recognise signs of disinterest so that you don’t allow someone to ‘pass time’ with you.ġ. If any of the following signs of disinterest are in your relationship, I’d take a parachute and jump because all 30 of these either on their own or joined up with others make for an unhealthy partnering. The key really isn’t to get into splitting hairs about what level of interest they have, because it all boils down to that they’re either in or they’re out, and they’re either treating you decently, or they’re not. One of the things that we must do, and by we, I mean both men and women because these issues affect everyone, is recognise when someone is not interested or is ‘vanilla’ in their interest. This is all on the basis of a couple of things: they’re still ‘there’ in some capacity and we assume they have ‘some’ interest that can be made into ‘more’.Ĭue trying to prove ourselves, seeking validation and attempting to avoid rejection. ![]() We ignore what are often blatant signs of disinterest. Over the years of writing this blog, I’ve read thousands of comments and emails where we make excuses, rationalise shady stuff, ignore red flags and our own needs, and basically linger or even stay rammed stuck in relationships long beyond their ‘use by date’. In the past, I made a lot of excuses for the behaviours of people that I was involved with, the anxiety that I felt with them, and my continued investment. “We want to try to set the record straight.Tags: assclowns, emotional unavailability, Fallback Girls, friends with benefits, Future Fakers, Future Faking, Rebound Relationships, red flags, rejection, Rejection retraction, signs he just wants you for sex, signs that they're not interested in me “Authors are not always kind to their enemies in texts,” he says. Aja hopes ancient DNA and radiocarbon analyses, currently underway, will resolve the biggest mysteries of the Philistines: Where did they come from and where did they go? Were they wiped out by their enemies or merely absorbed by them? At press time, the team planned to present preliminary results in November. The modest grave goods include tiny jugs, bracelets and weapons.ĭigging at Ashkelon ended in summer, but research continues in the laboratory. Some individuals were resting alone on their backs or sides others were jumbled in groups or cremated. Since then, the Ashkelon team has been exhuming and analyzing the skeletons of Philistine men and women, from infancy to old age. Aja probed the grounds with a backhoe until he struck bone, locating the long-lost burial grounds. Master and Aja were tipped off about the cemetery in 2013, when a retired Israeli surveyor insisted he’d found human bones and pottery just outside Ashkelon’s gates during a construction project decades ago. allows us to proceed for the first time from a really solid foundation,” says Daniel Master, Ashkelon co-director and Wheaton College archaeologist. In July, researchers announced that they had found over 210 skeletons from the first Philistine cemetery ever discovered, just outside the walls of Tel Ashkelon. “Archaeologists have done an excellent job constructing a plausible picture of who these Iron Age people were just based on the scraps we’ve had available to us,” Aja says.īut to confirm the origins and fates of Philistines, archaeologists needed more than scraps they needed Philistine bones. (Credit: Tsafrir Abayov/Leon Levy Expedition) Modest grave goods unearthed in the Philistine cemetery included weapons, jewelry and this juglet.
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